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It’s 1AM. And i cant sleep! Coffees for the day and wine for the night. Was trying to find some old friends from facebook. saw someone I know some years back. But still, I have no courage to add…haha…

How are u,Justin W?

I am so excited. The wedding date has finally marked down, after much saga. It is approximately a year from now, Yo Ho! I have plenty of time to plan. I am a planning person & I dislike last minute job….

We had bought our wedding rings, paid deposit for the wedding venue & drew out our guest list. Every Phrase of the planning bring us closer & understand each other better.At times, my patience is overwhelmed by my excitement.Bringing the right issue up at the right timing is crucial. Must learn!

Some preparations to make:

1) Bridal shoot (Need to lost my spare tyre & elephant leg & improve on my complexion),choose wedding gowns (cant wait!)

2) Bedroom (Renovate flooring?Paint wall & furnishing).

3) Choosing of videographer

4) Wedding invitation cards (Mr Chia will show off his forte in designing)

5) Wedding favor hunt down

6) DIY Doggie & Mousey in wedding costumes for the car head?

7) Montage
Red wine tasting. Must Choose the good one for my guests.

The list goes on..more to go…Mr Chia must help me too hor!

I entered the room
Sat by your bed all through the night
I watched your daily fight
I hardly knew
The pain was almost more than I could bear
And still I hear
Your last words to me

Heaven is a place nearby
So I won’t be so far away
And if you try and look for me
Maybe you’ll find me someday
Heaven is a place nearby
So there’s no need to say goodbye
I will ask you not to cry
I’ll always be by your side

You just faded away
You spread your wings, you had flown
Away to something unknown
Wish I could bring you back
You’re always on my mind
About to tear myself apart
You have your special place in my heart, always

I need you when I go to sleep
I still can hear your voice
And whisperes
I never will forget
——

回到了新加坡，路上的雨没停过。当了首次的姐妹，这三天，过得好愉快。希望这对新人能互相扶持，白头偕老。其实，大家都知道，婚姻是一个开始，而不是结局。我也快踏入那样的开始。我有没办法当一个好老婆，是一个谜。加油！

其实，到底应该要有怎样的老公条件？我觉得，或许，他的家乡简陋，他没什么钱，他不会浪漫，他有些缺陷，可是只要他有一颗爱你的心，就算他什么都不是，他对你而言也是最棒得。我从不认为，没有一个国际的人会配不上另一个。我就遇过一些不错的外国朋友。常听亲戚们说某个人嫁得很好，男方家很富裕，让人好羡慕。虽然有夫妇因为金钱纠纷而离婚，但是成功的婚姻不是完全扯上一个价钱。毕竟幸不幸福，还是要靠两人的努力经营，拥有克服挑战，不离不弃的态度。

我相信如果遇到对的人，那种自卑心，根本不会有，至少她是不会让你那样觉得。。。

失而复得的心情，是松了好大一口气。一个不留神犯下的疏忽，让自己又好气又好笑。唉呀！！！！！！我还以为上司会大发雷霆，可是她却很冷静，让我十分佩服。我想如果是我，我一定很生气，然后大骂为何会那么粗心大意。很感动大伙儿帮我找。每一个困难，是一个挑战，是一个学习的过程。我会好好得吸取教训。。。

终于要放假了！！！好期待！第一个和姐妹们的单身旅行，应该很疯吧。虽然家人因为流感而都希望我别去，可是这次很有意义。借这次机会，帮敏庆祝生日，和大家好好聚一聚。

在翻阅旅行资料时，发现了一个想去的地点。它叫

Taman Negara，是个热带雨林。拥有世界最长的canopy walkway，好吸引人。我下次一定要到那里去。大自然的景色，没有拥挤的人潮，吵杂的喧闹声，有我爱的宁静，绿色天堂，清晰的空气。。。。

多三十二小时，

Goodbye Singapore！！！

这样的桌球少见，万分之一。两粒球同时被挟在洞口，动弹不得。我应该安慰自己好幸运吗？哈哈。至少白球没进洞，自己没有机会，也没给对手机会。。。

还是选择叹气，眼看就要进洞口了，为何却偏偏在最后一秒出状况？

如果能连续跑一百圈能转运，我不介意尝试一下。就算好累，我一定试一下。一次过，通通放马过来，然后接下来让我顺利一些。。。一些些，我就满足了。又不是没努力。。。。为何总是徒劳无工？祸不单行？

或许，上帝就是爱开我玩笑。能留在我身旁的人，我好感激。在这低潮，是他们的安慰，他们的冷笑话，他们的宽容，他们的爱护，他们的伶听，给我力量。或许，它是要我看到身边的好人。

Just as we are having bright ray of hopes shinning in as the economy starts to get better,This stupid flu virus comes at the wrong timing.

It will sooner or later hit our shores. By then, we must be well prepared. But in fact, having to deal with an invincible symptoms during the infectious period,how prepared can we be?

I searched high and low for my thermometer. Haha…only realised that i am left with 1(the thermometer was hidden after sars disappeared years ago),the other went MIA. That means my mama dont have a thermometer. Heard news that thermometers and masks are out of stock….Shit…

Dont blame ppl if they are “Kiasu”. Similarly, If you peek into ppl grocessories trolley, you wont be surprise to see disinfectants,flu med. I am one of them. Yes. I spenT $27+ buying Walch hands soap, detol body foam and liquid today. Mr chia express his feeling abt me being so exaggerating last night. This flu is more scary than sars. I dont want to put anyone close to me at risk. I just cannot sit there and wait ….

Someone told me before, Being responsible is taking gd care of yourself. So dont forget to wash your hands, stay at home when you are sick and have enough sleep. May we tide over this swine soon…i still wan my holiday…

Only recently, i realised i am indeed a lucky person…

My wedding preparation has been going quite smoothly. I am so grateful that Uncle & auntie have been quite supportive. Unlike some others’ future parents-in laws whom insisted to make lots of wedding decisions for their children, they have been very open to let Jer & me decide.

Heard lots of horror stories of how couples can break up due stress & differences in opinions for the wedding preparation.Indeed,we had lots of quarrels which we never had since courtship.But somehow,we manage to sort the differences and learn to see each other’s perspective.

I read meaningful sentence by Dave Meurer:”A perfect wedding is not when the “perfect couple”comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences”

I am really lucky to have him

Travel via KTM

Suddenly, realised the saying:”Once you been to the worst,you will appreciate the better you had in life.”

Though the KTM train isnt that worst, however, it makes me think about our MRT and realised how lucky we really are.

The ticket

SGD$3 to go to Danga Mall & RM3 to come back…Cheap sia!

Cheap bowling @ Danga Mall

I made some improvements in bowling!More consistence in my scores. Though my posture is straight yet my ending pose is still like dancing…^_^

Can Mr chia really finish this BIG bowl of Ramen?

最好笑的是，我问同事我该怎样喝这个装在罐里的咖啡。应该拿杯子来倒吗？我不是有意搞笑得。这真是我的第一次。。。。

最古老的方式装咖啡，味道果然是不一样的。其中多了些什么滋味，并不是很清楚。。。

一杯好咖啡，浓而不腻， 浓而不盖香。

一杯好咖啡，是一天的支撑！